Both insist they’re immune from jealousy: “It’s only sex,” Susan says. “We’re perhaps maybe not dropping in deep love with them.”

Whatever your intimate appetite — say, both of you wish to be with a lady, or perhaps you both wish to be with a person, or she really wants to be with several males at the same time, or she likes husky guys and you crave feminine leprechauns with foot fetishes — well, you’ll find it on the market.

You will find large swingers clubs — Saints and Sinners, Pure Bliss and Southern Jersey Sex buddies, for example — and smaller groups that cater to nudists or 50-somethings or couples that are interracial the handicapped or fetishes. The Stilettos team, for instance, advertises that “everything comes off however the heels.” At “Uniforms of NJ,” you’ll find a body that is hot such as for instance a cop, firefighter or mail carrier.

Most swingers have a tendency to play in their own personal age areas, hardly ever straying significantly more than 10 years — although sometimes a couple that is 40-something very good condition can connect with a pair inside their 20s. Sometimes, it is not only about sex: The older few could have the methods to choose up the tab for luxurious getaways. Continue reading →